Living with Dementia

My wife Anna developed Alzheimer's in her early 50s. These are thoughts on what it was like day to day to live with dementia, for me and for her.

Sunday, October 22, 2006

‘I’ve never done that, ’ she says, after doing it for a hundredth time.
This time she is confused and afraid again about where she is, when she is at home in bed.
‘We’ll go to our house? Yes? How can I get there? What are they doing? What has happened to me? What happened? ‘
‘You are in bed now …’
‘Oh good.’
I think she is falling more than before. For example, she sometimes misses the chair in the sitting room. And walks into furniture, etc.
Falling out of bed is definitely a problem at the moment. I put her to bed on Thursday and the doorbell went – by the time I’d answered the door, there was a crash and she had fallen. I found her on the floor again the next morning, looking more puzzled than hurt.
Dan had difficulty with her going up stairs when I was out. I found them on the top step, but they had been an hour. So I am also thinking about the stairs. ( I have a heavy estimate for improvements to the bathroom on my desk. The bathroom is upstairs.)
He and I are able to lift her, but other carers would not be able to do that.
Health and Safety.
It’s what makes a home a Home.

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